Sunday, October 14, 2012

Can we Share a Cup of Coffee?

Thank you Jacob- Ruthie as promised pictures of our matching T's!
October 12, 2012



It's late afternoon I sit working on sending e-mails and find myself pausing to once again reach for my cup of coffee.  I smile to myself thinking of all those who will also smile seeing that once again coffee has worked its way into a note from me and then a thought crosses my mind, do they understand the significance of this little cup- or in my case the rather large cup?  So while I am here in The PICU waiting room of a hospital in India with that warm cup held casually in my hand let me share.   
 
This cup is a reminder, it is a warm hug from home, it is a measure of fellowship, it is love in a cup.  I was raised in a family of coffee drinkers, not just Mom and Daddy but really a family of them.  I learned to make coffee when I was four and my delight was to awake before my parents to be the one to make the coffee for them- this did end in some funny stories, you see it meant starting coffee at three or four in the morning if I was going to be done before my early rising parents we're up at five.  Some of my fondest memories are of the early morning smell of coffee- it meant time...fellowship, lives starting the morning together.  I loved hearing my grandparents at the table with my parents in early conversation hot steaming cups in their hands.  My mom's brothers left incredibly early for work but I could always count on hearing their voices in the kitchen around 4:30 or 5:00 lighthearted banter of siblings as they visited those few minutes over the coffee momma had ready for their stop through.  It became inseparable in my mind with loving well.  The sacrifice of sleeping in to make sure the pot was hot and people knew they were loved and welcome.  In my family coffee shops are gathering places to catch up, asking if someone wants to meet for coffee is an "I Love You" moment that says you are important to me, your fellowship is something I desire.  Oh and if the coffee shop doesn't work out stop by our homes, you see family knows coffee. There will be the signature flavors, the fresh smell of roasted and ground beans, the line up of new creamers, and two pots on the counter so that if the afternoon cup needs to be decaf we can handle that.  I smile knowing that we have GPS for every Starbucks along our route and yet we do occasionally branch out to check out the local flavors.  I love that people "send" me cups of coffee loving me and fellow shipping from a distance each sip reminds me of love and memories and precious people.  I think it is a treasure to know that Mikey went to all the work of finding out the mix of flavors for my favorite Turtle coffee at my home town coffee shop so that he would be able to mix it just right for coffee days in China. This wonderful coffee time tradition was reinforced while I was in Wales as every afternoon they broke for tea- I love the fact that they slowed down and took time to sip on a cup and re-energize for the rest of the day.  I must here interject that we are also big tea drinkers...partly because my sweet sister Melissa is NOT a coffee girl, she loves the smell, loves that it brings us all together but her massive morning cup will be filled with tea.  Another reason to serve, I love that our coffee tray takes into consideration the flavors of each of those represented, their likes and dislikes, that their desires are put before the perfect match of my hostess tray.
  This delight in the fellowship of coffee has carried over to my life at The Big House and I have been once again blessed with some coffee lovers there as well.  We all love to see that afternoon "Coffee?" text.  So as I reach for this cup of coffee I am encouraged, I am held close, I am loved. You see the folks at the Big house recognize this little life quirk of mine and sent me a bag full of encouragement, notes each taped to an instant Starbucks Via packet.  So as I sip my cup I am thinking of each of you and the coffee we have drunk together, here is to you and the fellowship of family, of tradition, of memories and of a love that can't wait to pour another another cup!

 




Wednesday, October 10, 2012

India Begins...


 After a slight delay in the Beijing airport which allowed plenty of walking in the terminal halls and checking out the playground slide we boarded our Dragon Air flight and were off.


The driving here is much like China but being on the opposite side of the road takes some getting used to!
 Time for days of Hospital visits and tests...


Dinner was good though even the non-spicy stuff is HOT... So thankful to be able to get plain rice and tandori bread!  One little boy who was very glad to snuggle up under his John Deere blanket for some sleep  After all we didn't get in until 3:30am and a day at the hospital will wear you out every time.

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Welcome Little Sister! "We Gotcha"

Kaitryn Talitha Jing Ni Bywater
Welcome to our family sweet, precious, little sister!
We have prayed fervently for your return, we have missed you dearly and are so excited to finally be bringing you home to your Forever Family.
I love you Darling One Big as the Sky !  Give Mommy and Daddy big hugs from me...
Your Always Big Sister- Mariah

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Goodbye and Hello...



October 7, 2012

Good Morning Dear Ones,
   Once again I sit in an airport the cross roads of good bye and hello, the waiting, transition, and movement of life pulsing all around me.  There is laughter, chatter, overhead announcements in multiple languages telling people where to hurry and scurry, there are tears of joy and tears of sorrow, people waiting, rushing, checking in, checking out, looking, searching, anticipating, determined, exhausted, energetic, and all here massed together to cross paths at such a time as this, a picture of life's journey.  Here I sit, Starbucks in hand (thinking of y'all!).  I have spent the past week with Mommy and Daddy who came a couple days early to visit before they pick up new little sister Kaitryn Jing Ni in Hefei tomorrow.  We have just said goodbye and I am trying to focus on the task at hand to keep the tears at bay.  We have had a wonderful time just being together, doing the things that I do here.  They have followed me around at both work and play getting a taste of my China world and even greater insight into the culture and background of my two precious little sisters.  I have been so blessed to share this time with them.  Just a few minutes ago here in Beijing we have parted ways and now I wait for more goodbyes and for more hellos.  In about an hour my sweet friend Abby will arrive from Luoyang with a very precious cargo.  She is leaving for her return trip home to the States and is bringing me a baby!  Yes, that really is how it works here transitions often happen and our omniscient Heavenly Father works out the master plan with such detail that the interceptions at an airport are always Providential!  Many of you have already heard bits and pieces of my latest proposed adventure and now the time to embark upon it has arrived.  Little Jeremiah and I will fly to Bangalore India tomorrow in order to take him for cardiac surgery.  He is 19 months old and I would covet your prayers as he undergoes treatment and we will both be in unfamiliar territory having neither one ever traveled to India!  I am grateful that I am very familiar with this precious little boy as I have been caring for him since he was only a few days old.  Momma loves the fact that he runs to hide behind my legs when he sees a stranger and peeks out from my shoulder to get a better look at those around him if he is unsure of them, flashing the brightest white of a smile when he does.  At this time we are projected to be there six to eight weeks, please pray for his recovery time and the skill and care of the surgeons who will be looking after him.  Pray that I will have wisdom and a clear mind as I sit at his bedside to provide the "Mommy" care he needs.  Pray for our hearts both physical and emotional.  I am so grateful for each of you and for those of you who have already shared so much information with me along with contacts and sharing friends or friends and family both physical and spiritual- I appreciate the care you have already given me as I enter a strange and new chapter of my journey.  I will do my best to keep you posted and updated in the weeks to come.
Covered in His Unending Grace,
Mariah and Jeremiah too




Monday, October 1, 2012

Happy Birthday Jacob!

Precious Brother you are a gift and I am eternally grateful for you.  I love you up to the moon, I love you big as the sky, I love you More!

Faithful Friend
Everyone knows you as a man of honor
I am glad to know you simply as a friend
You’ve always taken time to be my brother
And I’ll be standing by you in the end
But I will never put you on a pedestal
I thank the Lord for everything you do
I’ll be there to pray for you and the ones you love
I believe that He will finish all He started in you
I will be an open door that you can count on
Anywhere you are, anywhere you’ve been
I will be an honest heart you can depend on
I will be a faithful friend
I am one of many whose path has been made clearer
By the light you've carried faithfully as a warrior and a child
God has used you greatly to encourage and inspire
And you've remained a true friend all the while
So I will never put you on a pedestal
'Cause we both know all the glory is the Lord's
And I'll be there to pray that He will keep you by His grace
And I always will remind you to be seeking His face
I will be an open door that you can count on
Anywhere you are, anywhere you’ve been
I will be an honest heart you can depend on
I will be a faithful friend
Should it ever come your time to mourn
I will weep with you
And every single time you win
I'm celebrating too
I will celebrate with you

Sundown Saturday...

The WCIC-Show Hope Team visit complete with The Vera Bradley Girls
 I know it has been a bit since I posted a few of the happenings in my world so thought I would do a picture up-date and see if I can't fill in some of the details...

A Goodbye Party for Mikey Who is moving home base to Beijing

Bringing Home the Bacon gets a new meaning...
These sacks are actually full of live, squirming and SQUEALING Pigs!


The Doc's Family Takes a much needed break for a short trip- We miss them Hugs and Bunches

Celebrating Kristine's Visa Renewal with S'mores- for S'more time and S'more Entries!

A little bit of Guo Tie and Hai Bi...

A Kiddie trip to McDonald's- What a treat! And then of course we couldn't pass up a first visit to the grocery store...
























New Babies to snuggle and love on- but yes there was lots of work to do too.

Mommy and Daddy ARRIVE in LUOYANG!!!!!!!

Sunday, September 23, 2012

Grace, Grace...Amazing Grace 奇异恩典

Girls Growing In Grace


September 23, 2012

Dear Ones,
   Grace, Grace, God’s Grace…Amazing Grace how sweet the sound…MY Grace is Sufficient for you!  Can you see a theme here, a pattern, a line of thought, and an ever present gift that constantly comes to the forefront of my world?  I am daily, moment by moment caught in the grip of Grace.  Grace… an unmerited favor that I do not deserve, a gift, forgiveness, a showering of strength, a mercy I cannot fathom.  This is a concept that I am overwhelmed by, a provision I fall so short of and yet there it is, undeserved, unfathomable, and all available.  I consider the implication of it and I cannot find its beginning or end, it is ever present, washing over me like the waves of the ocean. 
   I had a little one whose has become for me the face of grace, maybe it is because his very favorite song, the one he soothed to, the one he was rocked to, the one that he smiled to was Amazing Grace.  Over and over the words of that song came from my lips and with each new chorus I was gripped more and more by the sheer gravity of the wonder in those words…
“Amazing Grace how sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me, I once was lost but now am found was blind but now I see.  T’was Grace that taught my heart to fear and Grace my fears relieved, How precious did that Grace appear the hour I first believed.  Through many dangers toils and snares I have already come ‘Tis Grace that brought me safe thus far and Grace will lead me home.  The Lord has promised good to me, His word my hope secures.  He will my shield and portion be, As long as life endures.  Yea, when this flesh and heart shall fail, And mortal life shall cease, I shall possess within the veil, A life of joy and peace, When we’ve been there ten thousand years bright shining as the sun, we’ve no less days to sing God’s Grace than when we first begun.”
  Over the past several months “Amazing Grace” has been a precious conversation topic among my sweet companions here as we have walked a bitter sweet road together…we have shared Grace, broken bread, drank lots of coffee, asked for and given forgiveness, encouraged, cried, laughed, and worked hard together, this Grace has become a by law, a hard wired truth, Grace that will not let us go.  And now it is written even deeper on the walls of our hearts etched in by the hand of a precious child whose face holds the faces of every child we touch, see, feel, hold, and pull close to snuggle tight.  It is carved deep into my very soul by my loving Heavenly Father who moment by moment pours over me new Grace for the journey ahead.
By His Grace- Amazing Grace,
Mariah